Tuesday 28 February 2012

Surf's Up

One of the coolest things about living is this area is coming to understand a bit about surfing and surf culture.

M. is learning to surf, so he is teaching me some of the theory, which involves an understanding of how to approach, catch and ride a wave. Most of the time, I have no idea what he's talking about, because surfing is clearly more about muscle memory than anything else. But I like that he uses words like rip, break and beach dump.  To which I can only respond: "Duuuuuuuuude".
    
My Surfer Dude

Surf Wives

 Surf culture is just a whole thing. It seems like everybody surfs in this town; it's just part of life. People "grab a surf" before, after, or in the middle of work. You see teenagers, men and women in their 50s and 60s, and everyone in between doing it. My favourite thing to observe is what I'll call "Surfer Flow". It's the regular sight of a surfer walking down the street, surfboard in hand, barefoot and soaking wet.  No wallet, shoes or towel come between the surfer and his or her pilgrimmage to the ocean. He or she has simply grabbed the board, walked out the door, and jumped into the ocean.  And this is a very common sight in these parts. Hating both being wet and being cold (and worst of all, being wet AND cold), I could never do it.  But more power to them.

 The surf lifeguards who patrol most beaches and are pretty cool too. They're all volunteers. Apparently swimming at public beaches was a big no no during the austere 1920s.  Obviously, lots of people did it anyway, except that it meant lots of them also drowned.  Hence, the establishment of Surf Lifesaving.    When the lifesavers are not saving lives, they're engaging in competitions between clubs.  And just generally looking good.

A Surf Lifesaver at Noosa Main Beach

Every major beach here has its own Surf Lifesaving Club.  And Surf Clubs are just a whole thing too.  They're great hang outs, and generally have the best view in town.  Check out Scary Waxen Lifesaver Dude and Creepy Ceiling Mounted Lifesaver Dude, fixtures at the Noosa SLSC.  Even though they greet you upon your arrival, brunch at the Surf Club (and overlooking the ocean) is pretty much the Best. Sunday. Morning. Ever.


 
Scary Waxen Lifesaver Dude
 
Creepy Ceiling Mounted Lifesaver Dude

The beautiful view from the Noosa Heads Surf Lifesaving Club
Little J having fun at brunch

Big J likes to surf too...


Surf's Up!


Thursday 23 February 2012

If You Were Born in February, I Probably Like You



It seems like most people in my life were either born in February or June.  It's not like I don't like you if you weren't born in those months, I'm just stating facts.  And it keeps on happening. 

It occurred to me that these good peeps (the February ones) deserve a big 'ole shout out.  And a belated/early Happy Birthday from me. I love you all!!

p.s.  Lulu,will you forgive me?  I have tried, for the life of me, but I can't get that white strip off!

Feb. 2:  The lovely and thoughtful Elana Commisso.  Why is she great?  Because she always calls to check in, and keeps me hip with our jaunts to Ossington. And she doesn't mind chilling on my couch with me, which is what we both really want to do most of the time.  Happy 36!

Feb. 7: Cute as a button Zoe Inzlicht.  My little neice is sweet as pie.  I can't wait to see how she's going to grow and change as the years  go by.  Happy 4th!

Feb 8:  The kind and jovial Chaim Inzlicht.  My father-in-law always has a smile on his face, a twinkle in his eye, and a giggle to share.  He has always been super generous with me, and welcomed me into the family from day one.  He's a great Saba to my kids... Happy 60 something.. ;)

Feb. 9: Sweet little Auden McEvoy.  This little dude is as cute as they come.  I wish I could see him more often....Happy 2nd!

Feb 9: Belly Buddy David Cruz.  His mama Michelle and I spent lots of time together when we were pregnant...and gave birth within days  of each other.  David and Jonah have been buds since they were in utero.  They even became big brothers within weeks of each other.  Happy 3rd!

Feb. 14: My little Lovey, Jonah Daniel Inzlicht.  My little boy is so energetic, funny and smart.  Happy 3rd, Jonah Bear. I love you so much!

Feb. 16: Teeny Tiny Lulu Angel McGrinder.  Welcome to the world, little one!  You were just born, and you are beautiful and perfect.  I am so thrilled that you have joined your family, they're great peeps.  I can't wait to meet you in a few months.  Happy birth day!

Feb. 17:  The sweet and hilarious Jenn Miller.  We've been friends for many years,and although we don't see each other often enough, she holds a place close to my heart.  Happy 36th, honey!

Feb. 20:  The lovely and upbeat Mette Huuse. We met, by chance, on an Australian bus shortly after our arrival here.  What luck.  Our families have spent lots of great time together so far.  And we will be sad to see them go back to Denmark next month...Happy 38th Birthday, Mette!

February 23:  The kind, cultured and generous Fred Ball.  My dad has known me, well, longer than anyone (and has put up with me for the longest...).  He's always there to talk to, to offer support, and to make us laugh. He's a great Zaidy to my kids, and very generous.  Happy 67th, dad! 

February 24:  The gentle, sweet and generous Rachella Goldofsky.  My aunt-in-law is so lovely.  She has played an important role in our lives.  In naming our daughter after her, we hope she will inherit some of Rachella's qualities.  Happy 70 something;)! 

February 28:  The loyal, caring and brilliant Jane Warren.  We clicked almost immediately about 17 years  ago, and never looked back.  I miss our biweekly sushi dates ever so much...Happy 36th, bud!

Feb. 28: The smart, sweet and laid back Martha Webb.  We met through the lovely Jane (we both have good taste in women),and hit it off.  Then, we had boys who were two months and two days apart, and then girls who were two months and two days apart...and realized that we were kind of the same person. Needless to say, I love hanging out with her.  Happy 34th, Martha!!

Big hugs to all you Febbies.  I wish you all a wonderful year ahead.  Enjoy the extra day in your month this year!!

xoxo

Friday 17 February 2012

Happy Birthday, Big J

It's hard to believe that my little baby boy is now a 3 year old.  Wow.  Time seems to have simultaneously flown and crawled by.  As I've heard it said, "The days are long, but the years are short".

We LOVE birthdays in this family, so we tend to make a big deal out of them.  Admittedly, I can go a little over the top.  I was secretly relieved when I realized that all four of our birthdays fall while we're away.  Low key birthdays can be a good thing too.

 We definitely wanted to do something in celebration, and for Big J to feel special.  We decorated the house with streamers, banners and balloons, so when he woke up, he really knew it was his day.  In the morning, we let him open our gift to him - a remote control car.  And two special  mystery gifts were delievered to our door, which we waited until later to open.  In the afternoon, I brought treats and dollar store toys to day care for him to share with his new classmates.  Bubbles and cupcakes are always such a hit with the 3 and under set. 

In the evening, we invited our new friends over for a dinner of Big J's favourite foods: corn on the cob, rice and chicken.  They are a family of 5, with 3 boys, aged 8, 6 and 3 months.  The boys had a great time playing with Big J's birthday presents, including the one they brought for him-- of course, a car. 

After dinner, we tucked into a delicious cake and cupcakes, and then headed to the beach for a little stargazing.  We brought glow sticks with us, and the kids loved running around on the beach in pitch blackness, seeing their wrists and ankles ringed in neon colour.  It occurred to me that children so rarely get the opportunity to be on the beach at night.  All in all, I think it was a really special day for Big J.
Star gazing on the beach. 
Little J tries cake for the first time.  I think she approved. 
Happy Birthday Boy

Dinosaur cake and cupcakes.  Note the Aussie flags!

Big J's lovely new babysitter left a beautifully wrapped gift for him outside the house on the morning of his birthday.  We were racking our brains all day trying to guess who it was from.  When we opened it later in the day, we learned that this adorable Little Chef set was from her.  She works in a really funky kid's store a few blocks away, so has easy access to great stuff for kids. We were so touched by her sweet gesture.  

The other special gift was two wonderful books sent from Bubby and Zaidy.  Big J loves to read, so books are a perfect choice. 

Happy Birthday, Little Dude!




Travel with Bubs

Aussies like to call babies "Bubs", a term I find very cute.

I thought it could be useful to share what I've learned about travel with babies and toddlers for those of you considering it, or who are looking for new travel tips. If you don't have kids or plan to travel with kids (or don't love me so much you'll read anything I write), this post will likely interest you about as much as paint drying.

We've taken a 6 week old to Portugal, a 3 month old to California, a 22 month old to Israel, and both an 8 month old and 3 year old to Australia.  On our first trip with a child (to San Francisco), I essentially brought our entire house with us. When you first travel with a baby, it feels like you need to bring everything, just in case. 

I'd like to think we've streamlined the process of travelling with kids a bit since then, but it still does mean bringing lots of stuff. Hopefully, the right gear will make your travels easier and more enjoyable.   And it's all about being prepared for multiple different types of situations.

Here's the gear I think is important for babies and toddlers,  birth-age 2


1) A great stroller, with a good sized under storage bag and a rain cover.
A good sun canopy is gold too.  I've never met a baby who likes sunlight in his or her eyes.  It's also essential that it recline back so that the baby can sleep on the go. Far from necessary, we like cup holders too-- so that we can drink our coffees while we're on the move. Because we HAVE to have our coffees. Never mind that they cost $5 a pop here in Oz. We're just going to pretend its not true, and move on.

2) A comfortable baby carrier, which can be easily stowed in your stroller's under bag. You never know when your baby might need to be cuddled. If you're in the middle of an airport, or in a restaurant or mall and the baby is freaking out in the stroller, these are a HUGE relief. When I travel anywhere, even within the city at home, I usually take a carrier with me, just in case. I love the Ergo Baby for its great support and design.

In our stroller storage basket or in a diaper bag, I tend to carry:

3)A nursing cover or scarf if you're nursing. These tend to double as burb/puke cloths after a feed, stroller blankets or sun shades in a pinch
4) A change of clothes for the bub, in case he/she has an accident, or rolls around in a mud puddle spontaneously
5) Baby wipes and diapers
6) A bib
7) Pacifiers. Soooooooo necessary.  Clips that keep them attached to the baby are a great convenience as well. 
8) Snacks.  Always snacks.
9) Bottles.  Always bottles.
10) Far from essential, but a pack 'n play (portable crib) is a great thing to have. Unless you know you're guaranteed a crib at your destination, it's great to have a safe place for the babe to sleep. If you're doing extended travel, you can bring it with you to use as the baby's crib while away, and then ditch it before coming home (this is our plan). On the down side, they are heavy and a bulky to transport.
11)Also not essential, but if you're nursing, a breast pump is great to have.  It means easily expressing milk if you need to.  And, you can potentially leave the babe with a family member or babysitter, and go exploring on your own for a bit. I love the Medela Swing, because it's tiny and light.  So easy to pack. 

For toddlers aged 2-4, I recommend:

1) A change of clothes, especially extra underwear and pants or shorts
2) A pad of paper and crayons
3) A couple quiet toys, that can be used independently, and in multiple environments, but that won't be too disruptive to others. Puzzles (stored in large ziplock bags), stickers and sticker books, small cars, books with flaps)
4) I hate to say it, but: an iPad or iPhone if you have one. I never thought I'd be "that parent". But here's a truth: kids hate waiting in long lines. And: kids get sick of bus/taxi/plane rides after about 30 minutes, one hour if you're lucky. Here's another truth: so do adults, and we use plenty of tools to keep ourselves busy to avoid boredom during travel. Why wouldn't we offer small kids the same distractions? There are so many amazing educational games, and if they're into a particular show, you can download a bunch of episodes (commercial free! ) from iTunes.

Traveling with two small children:

1)A great double stroller with raincover
2) Snacks. Always snacks
3) Toys they can both use
4) Bibs
5) Diapers for each child, and wipes

Traveling in a hot climate:

1)Muslin blankets to: use as a thin sheet at night, provide shade over the stroller, give the baby something to cuddle with, even when it's hot
2) Sun hats, sunscreen, water bottles
3) UV sun cover for the stroller. Not essential, but good to have. It means that your stroller holding your sleeping kids can remain in full, direct sun, while shading and protecting them from the sun.
4) A small toiletry bag that is left permanently in the stroller with: diapers and wipes, sunscreen, shampoo, soap. Super useful for showering off at the beach, and killing two birds with one stone by avoiding a bath later on
5)"Rashies": long sleeved bathing suit tops that 95% of kids and probably 75% of adults here in Oz wear. There's a hole over the ozone here, and the sun is 10 times stronger. But even in less extreme weather, they're useful for kids and mean more time in the sun, and less worries about sunscreen

We love to travel, and don't want to feel forced into doing only "family friendly" travel.  We think it's possible to  adapt travel to make it appropriate for kids, and it can be a great experience for everyone. 

Anyone have anything to add?

Tuesday 7 February 2012

Wild World

A friend recently told me that for her, Australia conjures a sense of pure wildness; a frontier where true danger exists.  This is probably what most people envision.  The fact that my friends and I are children of the 80s means that much of what we know of Australia we learned from Crocodile Dundee - -at least, speaking for myself. :) But in recent years, the other three members of my nuclear family have spent extensive time here in Oz. So I hear much about the cosmpolitanism, culture, and class this country has to offer.  I guess I somehow felt that I wouldn't really encounter that wildness and that danger unless I directly sought it out.

I am learning that these things are not so removed from day to day reality, but rather, co-exist in a stark juxtaposition. The sophistication and modernity are ultimately at the mercy of this fearsome land, powerful waters, and its deadly inhabitants. If the natural world had a spokesperson, he or she would say "Sure, you can have your fine restaurants, your upscale shops, and your museums.  But ultimately, I'm the boss.  And at any moment, without warning, I can ravage you."

OK, I'm getting a little dark here, and that was not my intention with this post.  Rather, it is to honour that land and water and wildlife.  I'm inspired by what I observed yesterday. I had the afternoon to myself, so travelled to a neighbouring town and beach, Peregian Beach.  The town itself is a classy little beach hamlet, with high end boutiques and a French cafe selling a perfect croissant (some of you may know, these are my weakness).  But the beach?  A wild, ominous, albeit GORGEOUS place. It was almost deserted when I was there, and the few surfers were struggling to get on their boards.

There's no way this captures the pounding surf, and the utter wildness of this place .  As I was sitting there, taking it all in, I thought to myself: "Yeah, I could see how a shark could be swimming around an area like this".  Not that I'm actively worried about sharks, but you know what I mean. It's just such a foreign (yet present) reality.


My paradise.  Beach, warm wind, blue sky, pounding surf, croissant, iced coffee.  No sharks allowed.



















Before leaving for this trip, my mother, who's been to Australia about 7 times, regaled me with a story about how one of her colleagues here lost her dog to a crocodile.  The dog was running on the beach (near a river, I think), and a croc just ran up and snatched it.  Her advice was, "You just need to ask the locals, wherever you are." Hmm.  I think I'll heed that advice.   So when I saw this sign on the way down to the beach warning me to watch out for snakes, I picked up the pace just a little (hence the blurriness of this pic.  It was taken at a slight distance).  If I saw this sign at home, would I be concerned?  What would that mean, a rattlesnake at worst?  But in Australia?  I don't want to know.  I'm just going to take their word for it, and steer clear.


Here's the daily wave conditions.




















And here's the Peregian Beach lifeguard stand.

I love it all.  I love that there are koalas in my 'hood.  That we see bright green, yellow and red lorakeets (like small parrots) flying around.  That we have a resident possum, who eats the leftovers our kids spill on the deck each night.  That I saw a pure white, BIG parrot perched on a tree on Noosa Main Beach last week.  I don't have a lot of love for snakes, crocs and sharks (and all manner of crazy spiders that inhabit this land).  But I love that we're in a place where we can feel so connected to the land, and yet not feel that we're in control of it. 

And I wish you were all here to experience it with me...

It’s Not Easy Being Grey


It’s a real trip for me that this sign is on our street, five doors down from our house.  We chose this town for its surfing beach, but I was thrilled when I learned that the area is fringed by a gorgeous national park  - - and is actually known for its koala population.  I have yet to see another sign like this on a quiet residential street such as ours. I'm just amazed that a koala could be hanging around in a tree here, and it means that I can’t help myself from always looking up, in the hopes of seeing one.  Then I started to do some research, and learned that Noosa’s koalas have been absolutely decimated over the last few decades. 

This sign is commonly seen on local roadways
Information seems to be really inconsistent.  By some counts, there are only 11 koalas left in Noosa National Park. Other sources predicted that by 2010 the population would be extinct. It seems impossible to believe, especially since M. met a guy the other day who saw one in the woods near here.
Whatever the exact details may be, it is clear that the population is in deep trouble.  The major issues?  Deforestation due to development, dog attacks, road accidents, and chlamydia.  Say what?  Koalas already live a bizarre life, spending 18-20 hours of their day sleeping, and most of their few waking hours getting high on eucalyptus leaves.  They can then find time to be naughty?   
From what I have read, disease is part of the koala’s natural history.  It is uncertain how the chlamydia bacterium originally infected the koala.  Some theories hold that it may have been transmitted by infected mammals that were introduced to the area over the last
40 000 years, while some suggest that the species may have come in contact with it during its evolutionary period.   Chlamydia is transmitted at birth, during mating, and potentially during fights. In koalas, it manifests as conjunctivitis (an eye infection that can lead to blindness), pneumonia and other respiratory infections, urinary tract infections, and infections of the reproductive systems which can then lead to infertility.  Beyond chlamydia, koalas are threatened by Koala retrovirus, which causes Koala Immune Deficiency Syndrome (KIDS), an immunodeficiency just like AIDS.  Oh, and they can get lymphoma, leukemia and skin cancer.  Could this possibly be a sadder story?

When koala populations are under stress and fighting for resources disease becomes more prevalent.  As the population weakens, breeding becomes more and more difficult.    In some areas, the infertility rate is reported to be 50% or higher.   And this is how a species becomes extinct.  
It seems like koala conservation is a hotly debated topic here in Oz, since in some areas (where populations have been relocated to new areas), overpopulation is an issue.  There is strong advocacy for them, and the government has invested money into researching retrovirus, retrofitting roads that are known to be dangerous, and in protecting swaths of habitat.  But the developers and new roads and ultimately; let's call a spade a spade-- people -- continue to be the biggest problem. 
Even though these little dudes have claws like knives, and are apparently quite vicious at times,  there’s just something about them.  Save the koalas!!



If you’re interested in reading more about Noosa’s koala issues, read on:
http://noosa-journal.whereilive.com.au/news/story/the-tragedy-of-noosas-lost-koalas/

http://www.news.com.au/where-the-bloody-hell-are-noosas-koalas/story-e6freoof-1225954631950